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Wednesday, April 11, 2007

didn't go to work again cos i'm still feeling unwell.
it's the first time i need to go back to the doctor for a 2nd time cos normally i'll be alright after the 1st course of med.
instead of earning more money, i spend $28 more..
till now haven fully recovered yet, but had to go work tomolo.
these few days at home was super boring.
i wake up, eat, watch tv, sometimes help my mum mop floor and surf net.
ting all had go to sentosa on tuesday, while i'm staying at home rotting.
oh god, pls ensure tat i'm healthy soon!

just now chat with a online friend.
when i first know him, he is still single.
and now, after some weeks, he had a gf already.
they were together like only 1 month plus..
wad surprise me is tat,
he said they getting married soon!!!
okie, they aren't very young anymore, cos both 23 i tink,
and he said tat his future wife is the best gal he ever know;
and that they are serious with this relationship.
i asked him: " dun you tink it's too fast to like plan to get married??"
he answered me saying: " actually time doesn't matter as long as we are really in love."
he had already propose to her and were planning to tie the knot in aug.
actually to tink of it, wad he said were pretty convincing.
it doesn't mean tat a relationship of 5 years can be compared to a short 1 month relationship.
it's not as if something like, " oh well, i'm gonna married to blah blah in blah blah years."
things will change. surroundings will change. and of course, people changes too.
a 5 years relationship might just go down the drain once the feelings faded or there's some misunderstandings.
a 1 month relationship will make one think tat," hai ya, blah blah and bleh bleh wun last very long lah."
in the end, they plan to get married.
so as to say,
when a relationship is stayed on for too long and hence,
feelings might fade, communications break down, no topics to talk about,
evetually the ending will be " you go your way, i go my way."
okie, even if a relationship had just started,
but if u are finacially stable, love each other alot and you already thought of things like " i wan to be with so and so for the rest of my life" and both are really ready to start a family,
i mean no harm getting married yeah?
even if after marriage you find flaws in your partner,
i believe there's solutions to reslove the problems,
they will still be the lovey dovey pair which make others envious!!
it's hard to build up a family,
but i believe the power of love...
every obstacles ahead will be solve if they had tried to keep the bond going.
anyway. i'm really happy for my friend though,
for he had found the right one who is willing to walk hand in hand with him till they grow old...
isn't tat sweet?

so sian.
have to go work tomolo nad registation to my school on friday.
i'm really studying, no jokes!!!
got to rest already...

till den......=)

Amanda shouted @ 9:49 PM